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May 26, 2003

Killing Axioms

Courtesy of Rook comes this article, which discusses why it can be so hard to convince someone to relinquish a belief regardless of evidence to the contrary. Go check it out, then come back. Go ahead, I'll wait.

Back so soon? Showoff.

OK, understanding why people have difficulty changing their belief structure is important, because it is key to successful argument. By successful argument, I do not necessarily mean winning arguments; while there is certainly some satisfaction to be found in winning an argument, there is far more in discovering the right answer. Even if it's not the one you would prefer. (Yes, this is an ideal, and not one I'd ever claim to reach more than a fraction of the time. But it is good to have a few ideals.) Learning to identify core beliefs is a critical piece of this process.

But identifying those core beliefs is harder than it sounds. For most of us, our core beliefs are so integral to our mindset, it can be difficult to separate ourselves from them enough to identify them. But do so we must, if we're to focus the arguments on the true issues.

To that end, I will attempt to sum up my own core beliefs, my personal axioms. By so doing, perhaps future discussions on this site will be just a bit better informed, and the signal to noise ratio will be reduced, if only a little. I'll give it a shot tomorrow. Hopefully I'll be able to post it tomorrow evening.

Posted at May 26, 2003 08:30 PM

Andrew Olmsted

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Ok, after you finish thinking about core beliefs, maybe you might want to pick up a book called (be patient, it's got one hell of a long title)- CHANGE: Principles of Problem Formation and Problem Resolution by (once again, patience please, lot's of authors)-Paul Watzlawick, Ph.D., John Weakland, Ch.E., and Richard Fisch, MD.
Oh, and just a quick background on me; I am a chemical dependency counselor. My biggest challenge is to change the core beliefs of alcoholics and drug addicts. Mind you, these are people whom, for the most part, had their beliefs instilled into them by means of abuse; mental, physical, sexual. The more energy that was put into this abuse, the more energy required by the person to overcome these beliefs. And the biggest of all obstacles is the fact that almost all core beliefs are implicitly taught to us....................
Ok, time to stop, this is getting to be a bit too long for a comment. Might have to make it an entry on my blog.

Posted by: Rook at May 26, 1903 09:57 PM